Do you have great expectations?

Often times, we say that we want things for ourselves, but on the inside we are really afraid.  We are really afraid and full of doubt.  When this occurs, if you dig deep enough, you will find that the problem is that your level of expectation does not meet what you were saying.

When you want things to happen in your life, you not only have to say it, but you have to put all of your energy behind it.  You have to expect it and actually do what it takes to set yourself up to receive it.

If you don’t allow yourself to fully believe this, then you will block your blessing.

Do you know what I mean?

How many times have you felt like you were so close to receiving what you wanted, but then it didn’t happen?  Your thing didn’t come?  While sometimes its not meant to be, there are other times when you may have blocked your own blessing.

I have had so many people come to me for coaching.  I would help them and right when we get close to them to a breakthrough, where they are creating action steps, they stop, like a deer in the headlights and shrink back.  They become paralyzed because they to actually take action.

Did you know that the paralyzing is also a blocker.  When they get to this point, I know that in order for them to achieve what they have been aiming for, they will have to overcome these obstacles, more importantly, they must have a mindset shift, and this is where we begin to work immediately.

Your mindset has everything to do with your level of success.  If you reach what some would call success before you are ready, you will blow it.  You won’t appreciate it, and you might even feel like a failure.  Now success is defined differently for each person, but the actual definition of success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

So I want to ask you, what is it that you want.  Are you expecting it to be great in your life? Do you feel like a success?  Are you speaking against your desire, freezing at action steps, and blocking your blessing?  Do you need a mindset shift?

If you know that it’s time for some things to change, click on the link in the header, take your quiz to find out what’s getting in the way of you being more successful.  Coupled together, with the required mindset change, you can begin to recognize areas that you need help and make progress towards being more successful in your life and business.