Having Great Expectations and a Mindset of Success

Often times, women say that they want things for themselves, but on the inside, they are really afraid and full of doubt.  When this occurs, digging deep will help you to see that the problem is that your level of expectation does not coincide with what you are saying.  This is an indicator that you are struggling to maintain a mindset of success.

Your entire being must be in agreement

When you want things to happen in your life, you not only have to say it, but you have to put all of your energy behind it.  You have to expect and actually do what it takes to set yourself up to receive it. You have to believe that what you want will really happen.  In essence, your entire being must be in agreement.

If you don’t allow yourself to fully believe this, then you will block your blessing.

Do you know what I mean?

Are you blocking your own blessing?

How many times have you felt like you were so close to receiving what you wanted, but then it didn’t happen?  Your thing didn’t come…

While sometimes it not meant to be or it’s not time, there are other times when you have blocked your own blessing.

I have seen this many times, when I’ve had people come to me for coaching.  I would help them and get them to a place of making a plan, to accomplish their goals. However, right when we get close to them creating action steps, they stop, like a deer in headlights.  They shrink back, on the inside, and get stuck.  They become paralyzed because they have to actually take action.  Even the thought of having to take action, causes them to get stuck.

The Need for a Mindset Shift

Did you know that the paralyzing is also a blocker?.  When they get to this point, I know that in order for them to achieve what they have been aiming for, they will have to overcome this obstacle.  More importantly, they will have to have a mindset shift and this is what we work on immediately.

Your mindset has everything to do with your level of success.  If you reach what some would call success before you are ready, you will have it, but you won’t appreciate it.  You might even feel like a failure or an imposter.  This is why you must realize that success is defined differently for each person.  Not only must you understand this, but you must define it for yourself and prepare your mind for the level of success that you desire.  Although success looks different to everyone, the actual definition of success is static.

Success is the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.

Knowing this, I want you to ask yourself, what it is that you want?  Are you expecting it to be great in your life? What is it that you are aiming for? Are you speaking against your desire, freezing at action steps, and blocking your blessing? Do you need a mindset shift?

Anything that you want to change, whether it’s your marriage, business, weight , lifestyle, even money requires you to change your mindset first.

Literally!

So, I want you to spend sometime today and over least within the next few  days thinking and pondering over these questions.

Without reflection, you are headed for deception

It’s important that you are honest with yourself about where you are.  Without reflection, you are headed for deception.

I don’t want you deceived.  I want you to be able to actualize your dreams and desires.  I want you to open your eyes, one day and see that your dream is a reality.

Do you want this for yourself?

If your answer is yes, then do this.

Make Time for Reflection

Get your notebook and take sometime, this week to do some reflecting.

Ask yourself the questions that I’ve mentioned here.

• What it is that you want?
• Are you expecting it to be great in your life?
• What is it that you are aiming for?
• Are you speaking against your desire, freezing at action steps, and blocking your blessing?
• Do you need a mindset shift?

f you struggle with these things and aren’t sure of how to escape this debilitating mindset, you have to make some decisions.  Make sure to stay connected, so that I can help you to overcome this, so that you can get out of the way and your desires can begin to manifest in your life.

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